Top 3 Actions Steps for the Newly Engaged

He asked, and you said YES! Congratulations on your engagement! Now, what’s next? There’s so much to consider, so many people to inform, and plenty to accomplish. It’s an exciting whirlwind! But don’t feel overwhelmed; just take it one day at a time. So, where do you start? Here are my TOP 3 things to do after getting engaged:

Number 1: Announce Your Engagement

First, tell your family, then those friends who feel like family, and finally, everyone else. I know you’re eager to post that ring selfie on Instagram or Facebook, but hold off for a moment—there’s a proper order to this! You wouldn’t want your eighth-grade science fair partner to learn about your engagement before your mom, right? (Trust me, your mom would not appreciate that.) Once you’re ready to share the news, call your family—this isn’t the time for a text! If you’re nearby, visit them in person. Next, reach out to your closest friends, the ones you’ll likely ask to be in your wedding party. After all the VIPs have celebrated with you, it’s time for that “We just got engaged!” social media post. Get ready for a flood of likes!

Number 2: Research Wedding Venues

Some people say you need a wedding date before booking a venue. I believe you can’t set a date until you’ve found your dream venue! Start by researching online, or if you already have a place in mind, call to inquire about pricing and availability. This task is definitely one of my top three!

Number 3: Plan an Engagement Party

Unsure if you want an engagement party? I say, why not? Once you and your partner announce your engagement, many people will want to celebrate you. A party is a wonderful way to bring everyone together and a perfect excuse to shop for your first of many little white dresses! Consider these questions:

• Do you want to plan it yourself, or would you prefer to let your parents or friends take charge?
• Would you like a low-key gathering at home or in a friend’s backyard?
• Would you rather meet at your favorite bar for drinks or rent a space for a catered dinner?

You don’t have to make major wedding decisions right after getting engaged, but if you’re thinking about an engagement party and want assistance planning it (or if you’d like it to be organized for you), it’s time to choose your wedding party so they can jump into action. (I checked with them—they’re excited!)

If you want to throw your own engagement party, you can hold on asking your bridal party members until later on. But the earlier you ask, the more help you can take advantage of, sooner! 

Remember, there’s no official wedding timeline out there for the newly engaged that you have to stick to. If you want to be engaged for two years, go for it! You shouldn’t start until you’re ready to devote the time, money and effort it takes to plan the wedding of your dreams. Otherwise, sit back, relax, and enjoy engagement season! 

p.s. Find more wedding planning tips below!

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10 Creative Ways to Use your Engagement Photo’s

5 Reasons to Include a First Look in your Wedding Timeline